| Category: Relationships | by: Loreal |
I know there are many of you who are wondering when, will I ever meet Mr. Right? So I thought I’d share my personal experience with you. It’s my personal opinion that you must first become Ms. Right, before you truly become attractive to any potential suitors. Simply put become the type of person that you would also want to be and be positive, since no one likes downers.
It is also important that you make a physical list of things you want in a partner and then categorize these by level of need or want. For example, if you want a doctor then list it. If you want an Asian or black man, then add that. Don’t forget personality traits, social circles, personality, sexual charisma, authenticity and anything else that you may require, want or just would like to have. Be sure to address your position on having kids, since not everyone wants to have them. Keep your list tucked away and then compare your suitors to this list.
Next, you will need to put yourself in situations to meet people (men or women).
Start with religious or professional organizations, mix in special interest groups like those for pet owners and don’t forget places you go to on a regular basis, like the grocery store, gym, etc. Casually talk to as many people as possible, even if you don’t know them directly. Also, let anyone that you’re close to that you are looking to meet someone. Moreover, don’t be afraid to go out by yourself; going solo sometimes can make you more approachable.
Now for the record, I met my Mr. Right over twelve years ago and I too had a list. We met at Lumberjack and we were married nine months after that. Please let me know if you have any questions regarding this post or if there’s a certain subject that you’d like highlighted and I’ll do the research and post it to http://help.loreals.com
Some good advice in this article. I think priority should be given to seeking out a guy with the desired character traits, as physical qualities rarely have long term implications. So for example a woman determined to have a guy over six feet in height could be automatically rejecting potential suitors with the character traits she actually wants. The vast majority of the time a woman’s ‘physical’ demands for her Mr Right are unfounded and could actually serve to keep her single. Filtering should be based initially upon personality and character with ‘physical chemistry’ being left on the back burner.
So in essence, character traits first with physical prowess as a bonus. Have fun.
Adam.
I completely agree with Adam. Like I’ve indicated previously, I met and married my Mr. Right 12 years ago and I was first drawn to his personality. Having said that, a person will seldom be someone long term if they are not physically appealing.
By the way, you should have a look at my article, Meet and Get the Woman/Women You want. It essentially indicates that men should just be themselves and things will fall into place, after all not everyone has the same preferences. My personal preference is with people who make me laugh and smile, after 13 years my Mr. Right still does that for me. Take care.