You are probably reading this, because you are single and would like that to change, as such I wanted to share my personal thoughts on this matter.  Keeping a positive attitude is important to meeting & getting the woman/women you want, but also keep the following things in mind.

1. Remember you are in the minority or in other words there are fewer males than females
2. Do the things you like to start, but maybe in a club or a group you haven’t frequented in the past. Groups are great for meeting people and you are guaranteed to have common interests, which is essential.
3. Try new things that have interested you. Perhaps take a cooking or painting class.
4. If you go somewhere and see someone more than once that interests you arrange a next meeting. This is probably the most important
5. Stay true to yourself and don’t become something you’re not, since you won’t be happy long term and you’ll end up resenting the person you end up with Read the rest of this entry »

I know there are many of you who are wondering when, will I ever meet Mr. Right?  So I thought I’d share my personal experience with you. It’s my personal opinion that you must first become Ms. Right, before you truly become attractive to any potential suitors. Simply put become the type of person that you would also want to be and be positive, since no one likes downers.

It is also important that you make a physical list of things you want in a partner and then categorize these by level of need or want. For example, if you want a doctor then list it. If you want an Asian or black man, then add that. Don’t forget personality traits, social circles, personality, sexual charisma, authenticity and anything else that you may require, want or just would like to have. Be sure to address your position on having kids, since not everyone wants to have them. Keep your list tucked away and then compare your suitors to this list.

Next, you will need to put yourself in situations to meet people (men or women).
Start with religious or professional organizations, mix in special interest groups like those for pet owners and don’t forget places you go to on a regular basis, like the grocery store, gym, etc. Casually talk to as many people as possible, even if you don’t know them directly. Also, let anyone that you’re close to that you are looking to meet someone. Moreover, don’t be afraid to go out by yourself; going solo sometimes can make you more approachable.

Now for the record, I met my Mr. Right over twelve years ago and I too had a list. We met at Lumberjack and we were married nine months after that.  Please let me know if you have any questions regarding this post or if there’s a certain subject that you’d like highlighted and I’ll do the research and post it to http://help.loreals.com